Words to live by....Anthony De Mello was a wise man....

This is an excerpt from "Awareness" by Anthony De Mello...read this, read that book, sit with it...

Do you think you help people because you are in love with them? Well, I’ve got news for you. You are never in love with anyone. You’re only in love with your prejudiced and hopeful idea of that person. Take a minute to think about that: You are never in love with anyone, you’re in love with your prejudiced idea of that person. Isn’t that how you fall out of love? Your idea changes, doesn’t it?

“How could you let me down when I trusted you so much?” you say to someone. Did you really trust them? You never trusted anyone. Come off it! That’s part of society’s brainwashing. You never trust anyone. You only trust your judgment about that person. Sp what are you complaining about? The fact is that you don’t like to say, “My judgment was lousy.” That’s not very flattering to you, is it? So you prefer to say, “How could you have let me down?”

So there it is: People don’t really want to grow up, people don’t really want change, people don’t really want to be happy. As someone so wisely said to me, “Don’t try to make them happy, you’ll only get in trouble. Don’t try to teach a pig to sing: it wastes your time and it irritates the pig.”

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Noogle "tip of the day": None of this is really worth it - it's pretty much all BS...give up and do whatever you want! Now, some music...


1. The National - Secret Meeting



2. Band Of Horses - The Funeral



3. Wilco - Radio Cure (live)



4. The Killers - Smile Like You Mean It (Acoustic)



5. The Promise Ring – Why Did We Ever Meet?